Hi male 992000,
On first look at your top gua Li turn into Kan it can mean the girl probably 2nd daughter and youngest son which is you are in the question. Right now the girl is confuse by your intention . Maybe you are too direct in your approach which scare her or can be anything from her side which somehow she are not willing .
The girl clearly shown on the 4th line Gyo start is retreating. You may want to try get think slowly or change your method of communication. because 6th line in the red is someone talking. it has a guy star. so maybe she dun like what you are saying? At some point you might also be involved in a heated argument with this girl.
So i think a better luck of finding another girl. Gyo girl star being in the black is also indicating not a good type of girl. being retreating just approved it. Wish you luck.