Hi stn0505,
the question you had ask is quite diffficult to answer in layman term. you wanted something to happen very bad. since now you are saying that difficulty arises from you not having desired result. this has much to do with how each and everyone of us in this cosmos existed. everyone play some part. not one is excluded.
therefore i study all your current hexagram and come to a single conclusion. it has same answer. we cannot take strength of star anymore at this level. but had to understand the philosophy behind the message at moving star in the hex.
the answer is this...when you are trying to press forward with your intention of getting to upper level by holding more responsibility at this time without having the capacity needed on such level the outcome will be a disaster both to you and the company you may have work with. i'm sorry if this sound really harsh.

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that is the reason you find hexagram Stop in your first toss. Iching merely asking you to reconsider your decision as you are not ready yet for now.
time will tell when you are ready and you definitely will know it . thrust me. my best motto is this " not doing anything is actually the same as you are doing something" . ponder of this

. i hope you get what i mean.