Hello to my great friends here on our Super I Ching forum and to all those new ones who are visiting and interested in the I Ching ![smile.gif](http://3.<a href="http://www.forumer.com">forumer</a>.com/html/emoticons/smile.gif)
Yes the I Ching has helped me countless times but what I will comment on now is how Amazingly each time I ask a question about a 'guy' in
the free reading forum that guy suddenly dissapears from my life....... which is ok
with me if that is God's will then I am more than happy he makes such things happen but you guys have to know how much the I Ching has SAVED me over and over and over these past couple of months and God's hand has interviened to stop me from making mistakes with even good guy/old friends or new friends who would have been a 'sort of' good match but not the real spark of love that we all wish for in our hearts that creates the fire of love that is everlasting between two people.
I appreciate that for whatever reason that my communication was so clear with those men, whom ever I was talking with or emailing to either old freind of new friend that those men thought enough of me not to involve me in seduction to just satisfy their needs. In years past I would have taken all that personal and thought I was being 'rejected', that I was the problem, now I see that I am being treated with respect and again I thank the I Ching for teaching me about honor and respect.
I am not the same person who first began reading and studying the I Ching 14 years ago, it (I Ching) has made me a much better person by trying to always choose the path of the superior person within myself.
I am far from 'sainthood'![laugh.gif](http://3.<a href="http://www.forumer.com">forumer</a>.com/html/emoticons/laugh.gif)
but I do try to do my best each day and sometimes that means just being able to keep my mouth shut when I want to tell someone how stupid or awful they are behaving...most of the time I succeed but sometimes I don't although the I Ching has definetly ground down my 'ruff edges' and made me into more of a diplomat and lady which is great and also fun for the people of my past and not so recent past to see that these changes in me are real. It makes me feel better about myself to and gives me more confidence as in 'self esteem'.
I've asked questions about my 'old pal', 'the Italian guy' or 'another direction' and they'd all be 'so so' answers, not great but not real bad either and I'd think 'hummmm???? should I settle for this way?
I would if the I Ching wanted me too for sure'......
THEN like a miracle![biggrin.gif](http://3.<a href="http://www.forumer.com">forumer</a>.com/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif)
I hear NOTHING from this or that guy again and just when they seemed to have been coming on strong trying to influence me in their direction! ![blink.gif](http://3.<a href="http://www.forumer.com">forumer</a>.com/html/emoticons/blink.gif)
In the past I would have called them/whoever up after a fews days or even a week
to find out what is 'wrong' why 'you haven't called' probably using the excuse 'I
thought there might be something wrong with you!!!'.....
but in reality or 'truth' I was really feeling rejected and then would be more submissive and stupid.... NOT ANYMORE
AGAIN it's been the I Ching that has taught me about dignityand how good it feels to have it pulsing through our veins.
I find from reading the I Ching that if a man is truey after a woman/loves her and that she is happy for him to persue her then he will come after
that woman with all his heart and woo her in courtship not seduction.
I take those words of the I Ching into my heart and have for many years NOW I am just thrilled with the Super I Ching that it can make such accurate predictions (as in UK, Horse and Sav at the moment since I still don't have my new book!) and that makes my life so much more peaceful and THAT is what I want most of all is to live in Harmony with the earth and it's people.
I am soooooooo tired of living with someone who is so crazy that he thinks that
I am his enemy. I know I am not and I know he is incapable at this time of thinking anything different but still it makes me tired to just have him around and it drains my energy to have to keep a bit of defensive armor on to deflect any creepy 'slime' he might try and throw my way. He's mentally ill and I have grown to feel alot of compassion towards him which is good for me first then him second![rolleyes.gif](http://3.<a href="http://www.forumer.com">forumer</a>.com/html/emoticons/rolleyes.gif)
with the guidance of the Super I Ching I will never ever ever be tricked like this man (X husband) has fooled me into beleiving he's someone he's NOT!
I am so ignorant on my own (without the Super I Ching), forgetting that there are people in the world who's main mission in life is to work for the evil of the world......how sad for those people but being a bit of a selfish human I feel sad for myself when I have to be around those kind of people too long let alone just realizing that they do exist and their are lots of them on this earth!
If I had had the Super I Ching 2 years ago I would never have married such a man
cause The I Ching would have told me of the huge danger lurking ahead BUT without the Super I Ching I only had the interpretations of the I Ching as I had known it for something like 11` or 12 years then...
So you see why I am so happy and my heart is over joyed at this finding of the Super I Ching.
We who love the I Ching and follow its directions are lucky people indeed and I
feel such a closeness to all of you here on this board. Thank you for for sharing
your time and hearts with me and letting me share mine with you.
As I was saying it's been so interesting to me as I have asked questions about this
or that guy that without saying a word to them about the I Ching but speaking with the heart of the I Ching/God they just have dissapeared, never with a word of anger or argument.
I am not willing to settle for 'less' ever again and that is what
I was doing when I married the guy I am now not married to anymore LOL
LOL LOL
With the Super I Ching life will be so much easier and happier even if I have to
spend all of my life as a single woman again, if that is God's plan for me then
I am happy with that.
Now I just have to keep on my new path of finding my way and finding the right questions that will guide me to my new life, to ask the I Ching.
I think this week I will go to the library and see if I can down load the Super I Ching book off the website but I will try calling Alex one more time. Then my friends I will be at your service to help here cause I know how much it has meant to me to have your support and friendship especially when I have gone through so much emotional upheavel in the past couple of months.
I love the I Ching and I love this group.
Your pal forever,
Ces
Yes the I Ching has helped me countless times but what I will comment on now is how Amazingly each time I ask a question about a 'guy' in
the free reading forum that guy suddenly dissapears from my life....... which is ok
with me if that is God's will then I am more than happy he makes such things happen but you guys have to know how much the I Ching has SAVED me over and over and over these past couple of months and God's hand has interviened to stop me from making mistakes with even good guy/old friends or new friends who would have been a 'sort of' good match but not the real spark of love that we all wish for in our hearts that creates the fire of love that is everlasting between two people.
I appreciate that for whatever reason that my communication was so clear with those men, whom ever I was talking with or emailing to either old freind of new friend that those men thought enough of me not to involve me in seduction to just satisfy their needs. In years past I would have taken all that personal and thought I was being 'rejected', that I was the problem, now I see that I am being treated with respect and again I thank the I Ching for teaching me about honor and respect.
I am not the same person who first began reading and studying the I Ching 14 years ago, it (I Ching) has made me a much better person by trying to always choose the path of the superior person within myself.
I am far from 'sainthood'
but I do try to do my best each day and sometimes that means just being able to keep my mouth shut when I want to tell someone how stupid or awful they are behaving...most of the time I succeed but sometimes I don't although the I Ching has definetly ground down my 'ruff edges' and made me into more of a diplomat and lady which is great and also fun for the people of my past and not so recent past to see that these changes in me are real. It makes me feel better about myself to and gives me more confidence as in 'self esteem'.
I've asked questions about my 'old pal', 'the Italian guy' or 'another direction' and they'd all be 'so so' answers, not great but not real bad either and I'd think 'hummmm???? should I settle for this way?
I would if the I Ching wanted me too for sure'......
THEN like a miracle
I hear NOTHING from this or that guy again and just when they seemed to have been coming on strong trying to influence me in their direction! In the past I would have called them/whoever up after a fews days or even a week
to find out what is 'wrong' why 'you haven't called' probably using the excuse 'I
thought there might be something wrong with you!!!'.....
but in reality or 'truth' I was really feeling rejected and then would be more submissive and stupid.... NOT ANYMORE
AGAIN it's been the I Ching that has taught me about dignityand how good it feels to have it pulsing through our veins.
I find from reading the I Ching that if a man is truey after a woman/loves her and that she is happy for him to persue her then he will come after
that woman with all his heart and woo her in courtship not seduction.
I take those words of the I Ching into my heart and have for many years NOW I am just thrilled with the Super I Ching that it can make such accurate predictions (as in UK, Horse and Sav at the moment since I still don't have my new book!) and that makes my life so much more peaceful and THAT is what I want most of all is to live in Harmony with the earth and it's people.
I am soooooooo tired of living with someone who is so crazy that he thinks that
I am his enemy. I know I am not and I know he is incapable at this time of thinking anything different but still it makes me tired to just have him around and it drains my energy to have to keep a bit of defensive armor on to deflect any creepy 'slime' he might try and throw my way. He's mentally ill and I have grown to feel alot of compassion towards him which is good for me first then him second
with the guidance of the Super I Ching I will never ever ever be tricked like this man (X husband) has fooled me into beleiving he's someone he's NOT!
I am so ignorant on my own (without the Super I Ching), forgetting that there are people in the world who's main mission in life is to work for the evil of the world......how sad for those people but being a bit of a selfish human I feel sad for myself when I have to be around those kind of people too long let alone just realizing that they do exist and their are lots of them on this earth!
If I had had the Super I Ching 2 years ago I would never have married such a man
cause The I Ching would have told me of the huge danger lurking ahead BUT without the Super I Ching I only had the interpretations of the I Ching as I had known it for something like 11` or 12 years then...
So you see why I am so happy and my heart is over joyed at this finding of the Super I Ching.
We who love the I Ching and follow its directions are lucky people indeed and I
feel such a closeness to all of you here on this board. Thank you for for sharing
your time and hearts with me and letting me share mine with you.
As I was saying it's been so interesting to me as I have asked questions about this
or that guy that without saying a word to them about the I Ching but speaking with the heart of the I Ching/God they just have dissapeared, never with a word of anger or argument.
I am not willing to settle for 'less' ever again and that is what
I was doing when I married the guy I am now not married to anymore
LOLLOL LOL
With the Super I Ching life will be so much easier and happier even if I have to
spend all of my life as a single woman again, if that is God's plan for me then
I am happy with that.
Now I just have to keep on my new path of finding my way and finding the right questions that will guide me to my new life, to ask the I Ching.
I think this week I will go to the library and see if I can down load the Super I Ching book off the website but I will try calling Alex one more time. Then my friends I will be at your service to help here cause I know how much it has meant to me to have your support and friendship especially when I have gone through so much emotional upheavel in the past couple of months.
I love the I Ching and I love this group.
Your pal forever,
Ces