Well i have posted something over at the other side, was told by horse to ask you for advice.

I have a female colleague whom i liked she is 28 i am 27. Don't know if we could be together.

By the way, how can i find out what she likes?

Dear stn0505

First of all - Thank you for stopping by. I shall try to assist you as best as I can

I have read your posts in the other forum in relation to this matter just so that I can get an idea as to where you are coming from.

Women liked to be pampered. We like to know that males like us for who we are

My advice for you in this matter would be to start out by becoming friends with her first. Women like to have male friends - it makes us feel safe and secure. A friendship with a women can be a wonderful thing for a guy - you would be surprised at how much we understand. By becoming friends with her first, you will be able to find out what she likes and dislikes about the world including what she wants in a boyfriend. Listen to what she has to say and offer your opinion if you think that it is appropriate. By listening to what she has to say, you will make her feel appreciated and valued. This is one of the first steps to winning a women's heart - appreciation. Women thrive and flourish on this

Winning a women's heart takes time though . You will have to be patient, understanding, caring, and above all, be yourself. It is good that you are both around about the same age as you will both have similar interests.

Build a friendship first and get to know her first before thinking about moving onto the next stage.

I hope that this helps you

Wishing you all the best

aussieincome

hi stn0505

This is just what I thought in mind about you liking a female colleague at work. Just my personal opinions..

I feel in a working environment, if you had a relationship with someone, if things do work out well, it'll be great of course! However, if it turns out the other way, I guess it's going to be a very awkward to be continue working together (for the worse case).. If both parties can still be friends it is still fine. If not, I'm sure either one will have to leave the company.

I guess I'm not that good in relationships yet too.. had my own kind of problems.

got to know this girl from the net, and so coincidently.. she happened to be an acquaintance's younger sister. We have been quite close for some time, and there was a time I feel probably she had liked me and asked her to be my girlfriend... somehow I do not know why she rejected. Later after that, we kind of 'distanced' ourselves. Recently, we started to contact each other frequently again..

What are women really thinking and what do they want? Did she contacted me more often because she's bored and needed someone to 'entertain' her??
*Sigh*

Thanks Aussie and Saviola, I believe Stn really needs this kind of help/advice from community friends like you. Thanks for sharing your experiences/opinions with him. I appreciate that very much.