Dear Bodach,

The quoted article came from our other forum. My reply to your relationship issue. Your question now is that if the feeling about love is mutual then why do you experience rejection from her.

I don't see any indication from the hex that she's intersted in seeing someone. Here's my additional observation. Right now the character of the Girl Star is stronger than your character ® and there's another G that's always in the arguementative mood that contributes to your concerns.

I am not really sure what's causing this. But perhaps, the hidden K star being killed by the P star is what's affecting the relationship. P could symbolize an older person (could be your parents or her parents) that are causing it for some reasons. Other than that, there could be some influence that could affect her mood. You know, it's not really important to find out the specifics at this point, so long as you know what's causing the problem in general. You can attact the problem from the top down to the bottom. Small details of the problems are sometimes, just the products of the main issue.

I don't know exactly how your problems started and what have you done so far, so it's sometimes hard to advice what to do. But again, I want to stress out that she is still in love with you. It is just that there are some barriers between the two of you that you have to investigate carefully. Her feelings toward you is still there but it's hiding. (G to Hiding R).

I want to post this at friend's forum and I hope you won't mind. I want other friends good in giving advice see and comment on your issues. Auss and Saviola and other members and visitors could help you out here. I'm sure you'll get something good from them.

Cheer Up, Bodach. You have some friends here.

Always,

Horse.

Dear Bodach,

It may be best to try and have an open discussion with her. Discuss any issues which might be bothering/concerning both of you and ways of working around these issues. Communication is the key, from what I can see, to fixing this problem. Some women have problems discussing issues for fear of retribution, even when it is something that they consider important. This can cause lots of problems in itself and make any other problems look huge (you know the saying: "Make a mountain out of a mole-hill").

Try having a deep and meaningful conversation with her and try and get any issues that are bothering you both out in the open, but don't be too persistant - she will talk when she is ready. Hopefully, just knowing that you have opened the lines of communication on the topic will be a big help.

Hopefully this helps.

Let me know how you get on.

Auss

Yes I agree communication is the key to it.

I'm not really good at this too actually, but it really needed both parties willing to talk it out in order for things to work.

Sometimes I do find I can't understand women.. What's really on their mind? haha..
I'm always open to talks, but it seemed those I knew are not that open. It's like I'm at their doorstep knocking on the door, they asked who's that.. and talk behind the door without opening it..

Well.. probably the way I'm approaching them may be wrong, Auss??

Anyway, Bodach, try to talk to her liked auss had said.

Good luck